LaNguage oF LoVe

Are you tired of your feelings going up and down like a roller coaster? How can you develop a love that remains consistently strong form season-to-season or year-to-year? Contrary to popular belief, we honor or admire a person for its core genuine love. Love is a decision not a feeling.There are famous languages of love, “Trust Me”, “Sorry”’ and “Move On!”

This pinnacle words can sometimes convey happiness and pleasure but can also bring disappointment and frustration. We feel of letting loose of someone that we love but doesn’t give it back to us and just find someone who could fulfill the tear in your heart. Some folks said that you must feel a throbbing pain that blemish your heart and soul before you will feel happiness and trust.

But how can you love the guy that keeps on making a slit in your heart but you can’t let go because you are really “crazy glued” with him? Would try to let go and move on, or fight for your love because you have optimism that he might love you soon.

Teenagers now a days, find love as a true feeling for someone they admire but for me it’s a big No! No! That’s just an admiration, feelings that may last in a minute, an hour, a day or sometimes a month. But ask yourself first, “Can this feeling last forever? These made us think that love is just a simple mystery but its not. How can you say you’re in love with someone when you even don’t undertake a heartrending feeling?

Once I felt admiration for a guy that even don’t know how I care for him. He never have the chance to talk tome either gave me a brilliant smile. I started to feel disappointed with him. He never knew how I am afflicted by his behavior. But I didn’t give up my feelings for him.

I once caught him standing beside me and pertain to hold my hands but I suddenly put it in my pocket. That was the greatest thing that struck me. I whispered myself’ “Did he also felt the same way that I do? There were times that I felt tired of waiting for his feelings that I want to give up but could not help not to see him the whole day.

I was really confused of my feelings for him, sometimes I want to tell him that he was the most coward man I met through all of my life. Sometimes I want to join his hand with mine. The entire If’s in my mind. He was the one who keeps me awake the whole night thinking what was he doing, is he fine or night? That lad keeps me busy during our discussion writing his last name with my first. He was also the one that keeps on digging a hole in my heart. I then realized he doesn’t care for me and I give up!

High school is the most exciting part of the teenage life, but not for love. You can’t feel complete happiness. For me it’s not yet the time to let my feelings be true and fall for someone. Don’ let your self to have a heart as a hard as diamond or as soft as talc. Just be on yourself! Don’t find love, let love find you!