Crushes: Why Can They Be Harmful?

I’ve begun to notice the opposite sex, perhaps in particular. New feelings and emotions surge to my body. I become very conscious of my face, hair, and my dress. Am I looking good? But just what is it that I am feeling? Is it the love, the kind that lasts forever or something else? And just what should I do about those feelings? For me crushes are as common as colds. Almost all of us experience them, and almost all manage to survive to adulthood, with their pride and sense of humor intact. However, when I will catch myself in the grip of a crush, there is little to laugh about. “I’m very frustrated because I couldn’t do anything about it. I was really bent out of shape over the whole thing!” It is no sin to have strong feelings for someone, provided such are not immoral or improper. “When you are still young, rule your thoughts and actions”, they said. Still learning to control the new and potent desires unleashed by puberty, I can be full of whipped-up romantic feelings and have no one to lavish them on. There are many romantic feelings that will bloom in our high school life. You will find the guy that will make you smile and happy by just seeing his face and glimmering eyes. Furthermore, we girls become poised and socially at ease at an early age than the lads. As a result we often find our male classmates immature and unexciting compared to older, unattainable men. I sometimes thus imagine that a pop singer or some older acquaintance is the ideal man. Boys often become similarly infatuated. However, this love I felt for such distant figures is obviously rooted more in fantasy than reality. While most crushes are amazingly short-lived, still they can do a lot of damage for me. For one thing, many objects of teenage affection are simply not worthy of esteem. A wise man said, “Foolishness has been put in many high positions.” Thus a singer is idolized because he has smooth voice or string looks. For me this is really happening to the majority of the young people today! We are infatuated with someone and spend all your day listening to his songs, watching his movie and daydreaming about him. Is it right to fill my room with his posters and shall I give-up my study time in order to attend his concert? Am I really in love with him? Or just something else But sometimes these strange feelings can inspire a particular man or woman to do his or her best to show the person he or she love that she deserves for it. Having a crush with someone may cause damage to the life of the youth. Sometimes it will inspire them to strive hard t make their special someone happy an proud for them.. And one thing that I will say is, “Never fall in love with someone whom you know is impossible neither the man that could ruin your life as well as your future.